Okay, I know I am sensitive and I know that I am emotional, but does anyone feel as though they can't express things to me freely because your afraid of how I may respond? Does anyone feel as though they are on pins and needles around me?
I'm doing some soul searching here and I would like honest feedback.
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I honestly, seriously, have never felt on pins and needles around you. Ever.
So not on my end :)
Me either. I'm with Lisa as all Lisa B's stand together. Hahaha.
You are very passionate and LATINA. Animated. It's what I LOVE about you. If I had to share something with you-I would and I DO.
Sure you react strongly sometimes when things make you CRAZY. But I know what you're feeling. Just the other day...I was freaking out about some injustices that have been sent my way & Gerry ticked and stood in my favor and rubbed it in (so it seemed) Then I brought it up again being infuriated...And he says.....DON"T BE CONSUMED by this monster, just let it go."
WHOA! I yelled at him & said..."YOU are the REASON I'm still mad! And on & on I went.
Since then I calmed down and figured things out. But when I went back to Gerardo....He said, "I'm not giving you my opinions anymore."
Well...so I guess what the point of the matter is comes down to this. I think there's a reason that we are being taught to be patient, long suffering, proactive and not reactive. When we react strongly, people will shy back (like Gerardo).
On my end...it is a process not to be quick to anger. It's sort of like learning to be sensitive to the Spirit. I think when things are being said and done to our distastes. we don't need to take them personally and somehow we can see what's really going on. j
It's an art. JUST BE YOURSELF. Who cares what anyone thinks. If you think you need to work on any personal attributes you'd like to improve. Well then..that's a whole nother story. We LOVE YOU. Your personality is what makes you - YOU. If you find that you get offended alot; well that's not good at all. That is a choice. You know? That kind of stuff I learned is like worms eating you from the inside out.
Ask Jacki about me. She thinks I've turned uglier since I've taken a certain situation a little too seriously and a little too personally.
What was it that Pres. Kimball said? Something to the effect of "Wizened Pygmies" That was such a image that I promised myself that I'm going to try and avoid that look.
Sorry for the soap box commentary.
I don't feel the need to hold back . . . but that's because I'm insensitive.
I've ever felt that way around you, seriously.
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